Accept one Another

Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. -ROMANS 15:7

Christ was sent here to speak the words of God and to help us overcome our human flaws. He did not judge any one person by their faults because He knew that the people were of God's creation and therefore it was necessary to have imperfections. Our ultimate goal in life on this Earth is to become as Christ was. By judging your spouse (as well as others) for their imperfections, no matter how reverent you are on Sundays or how biblicly learned you are, you will come no closer to Christ. God gave us the covenent of marriage that we may learn and be closer to Him. When we have a Godly marriage, we are glorifying God by saying "We as a couple believe and heed your words. Show us what we need to keep a holy union with eachother that we may serve you better."

This is principle is one that should already be implied when getting married or while you are already married. However, it seems that for alot of people it is one of the hardest things to swallow. Your spouse at first may seem to have weird little habits that you are not used to, or perhaps thier way of going about doing things is not exactly the way you prefer. Alot of couples run into this problem and constantly fight about "the right way" of doing things.

Lets face it... if we were all perfect, God would not have put us on this Earth. God set us here because we are imperfect beings that need His guidance to become perfect. God ordained marriage as a covenant and he also kept our imperfections in mind. Let us love one another, for love comes from God. (1 John 4:7)When you marry the spouse God has chosen for you, He sets it up that your flaws will be beneficial to your spouse and vice versa. By that I mean if your spouse has some flaw or annoying habit, God wants you to learn patience by learning how to deal with it. God states in Corinthians that he specifically put you in marriage to your spouse to deal with interesting and sometimes difficult times, but he lets you know that if you believe in Him, your marriage will be a Godly one. But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.1 Corinthians 7:28 (King James Version)

Perhaps it is you that are too uptight and God needed to put that flaw in your life so you may learn to loosen up and relax. Your partner should compliment your abilities and mimic your flaws. What you see as irritating, may just be your insecurity of not ever experiencing what they think is normal and God may see that you need that in your life as a catalyst to coming closer to who He really made you to be. By learning to accept your spouse for who they are and realize that is was your very same God that made them that way, your marriage will be a fruitful one. So perhaps whenever you start to see a fault on thier side, think to yourself that it is a test coming from God. He gave you faults too, and lay blame on your spouse is not what He had intended.

Righteous Woman, Godly Wife

The greatest thing I have ever learned has been how to become the wife my husband deserves and the woman God needs me to become. I have been through trial and error and amazingly (like God always is) the answer hit me like a ton of bricks.


Its not enough to be a good wife, what a woman’s job and life purpose should be is to become a Godly woman and wife. No marriage has any stronger foundation than those who embrace Christ together as a couple and be completely obedient to His word. While men are usually esteemed to be the head of the household and the family unit, the Godly wife has the privilege of keeping the strength of the faith and the light of the Lord within each member of the family unit.

The first and I will say foremost principle that is by far the most important is going to church every Sunday with your family, taking the sacrament and attending most of all of the extra meetings. By attending the Lords services, you as a wife are enabling the Spirit to be with you not only while at your meetings, but throughout the week at home as well. Your husband will benefit from the Godly lessons you learn in being a Woman of the Lord, and your family will reap the solace they find in the comfort of a Spirit filled home.

I am tempted to put this next principle up with the first one just because of the high importance level it has also. It is not enough to go to Church and take the sacrament, that is just going through the motions. What you learn in Church is the most valuable lessons you will ever be subject to. The application of the sermons and the morals and the lessons to your daily life is THE key to becoming a Godly wife. With out the application, you are becoming a cookie-cutter Christian, or in plain terms, a hypocrite. What looks good on the outside does not always reflect what is on the inside. The Lord does not care how you dress to attend His services, he cares not how many people you know or how many responsibilities you take on in the Church. If you do not perform them with the utmost earnesty to serve Him who knows and sees all… how can you expect to be welcomed into the kingdom of God?

It is wise for any wife to bookmark Proverbs 31 in the Holy Bible. Here it is given the account from the Lord himself of what he expects a woman and wife to be in His kingdom. Verses 10-30 is the best manual a married woman can have. This is not to say that a Godly woman lets herself be a doormat. However when applying these principles to your marriage, you most likely will find your husband will respond in a much more positive manner than if they are not applied. I do not expect myself to live up completely to these principles, obviously I dont make my family clothes, we go and buy new clothes if we need them. But you'll get the general idea...

10A truly good wife
is the most precious treasure
a man can find!
11Her husband depends on her,
and she never
lets him down.
12She is good to him
every day of her life,
13and with her own hands
she gladly makes clothes.
14She is like a sailing ship
that brings food
from across the sea.
15She gets up before daylight
to prepare food
for her family
and for her servants. [
a] 16She knows how to buy land
and how to plant a vineyard,
17and she always works hard
18She knows when to buy or sell,
and she stays busy
until late at night.
19She spins her own cloth,
20and she helps the poor
and the needy.
21Her family has warm clothing,
and so she doesn't worry
when it snows.
22She does her own sewing,
and everything she wears
is beautiful.
23Her husband is a well-known
and respected leader
in the city.
24She makes clothes to sell
to the shop owners.
25She is strong and graceful, [b] as well as cheerful
about the future.
26Her words are sensible,
and her advice
is thoughtful.
27She takes good care
of her family
and is never lazy.
28Her children praise her,
and with great pride
her husband says,
29"There are many good women,
but you are the best!"
30Charm can be deceiving,
and beauty fades away,
but a woman
who honors the LORD
deserves to be praised.